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DiaBLOGue VI – A Case for Burying Common Sense

Friday, October 29th, 2010

A Case for burying COMMON SENSE

By: Phyllis Hampton
October 29, 2010

If we heroes are going to positively impact humanity, we have to consider that perhaps it might be time for “Common Sense” to give way to its first cousin, “Good Sense,” who has been waiting patiently in the wings.

At whatever station we inhabit as a hero – the US of us (diaBLOGue V), the Firestarter (diaBLOGue III), and/or the Hero-At-Large (diaBLOGue II), it will serve us to make the distinction between Common Sense and Good Sense. For most in mass consciousness, these Sense cousins are the same, but for the diaBLOGue hero, there is an important subtle difference.

My perspective of the phrase Common Sense is that it implies those certain reactions to situations that are “commonly” agreed upon to keep the individual safe and comfortable. Viewed in a broader light, Common Sense doesn’t really allow for exceptional thought and action. In actuality, it can keep one stifled and stuck. If Common Sense has impressed upon you that you will only feel safe when you don’t talk to strangers, what kind of expansive opportunities are then available to you? Or if it dictates to you that you must stay in a job that is making you physically or emotionally ill because you believe only it provides you with superfluous things you think you need, what is the trade off? What kind of impacting and growthful experiences could you have instead, when you find yourself in a moment that is pregnant with new opportunities to go beyond the limiting box offered by “Common Sense?”

In considering the “good” of Good Sense, we must explore a more heroically based meaning of that word that goes beyond common assumptions. These notions might include: don’t say bad words; don’t be aggressive; don’t disappoint anyone; do nice things and please others; behave in a perfect manner; don’t hurt anyone’s feelings; etc. “Good,” in the heroic context, means being authentically helpful, both to you and to another or others. Good Sense has many of the sensible qualities of Common Sense, but without its blanket assumptions. Good Sense does require of heroes to be kind, have appropriate manners and to not be reckless, but also allows for wise exception. This is another way of saying that Good Sense inherently includes the ability to make uncommon decisions by discerning what is truly healthy and helpful.  Good Sense goes beyond the safety and comfort at all costs offered by Common Sense and is guided instead by more altruistic motives.

It is time for us to observe and appropriately challenge those perceptions and conceptions of Common Sense that have unconsciously controlled much of our thinking and actions. Instead, all heroes are urged to be guided by Good Sense. Their heroic stations in humanity necessitate surpassing Common Senses’ isolating self-centered comfort and safety concerns at all costs.

Good Sense includes the understanding that the welfare of other living beings and things must be considered as a matter of course. The fragile balance of humanity depends upon it.

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diaBLOGue IV – The Hero’s Greatest Tool

Sunday, December 20th, 2009

by: Phyllis Hampton
December 20, 2009

What is the hero’s greatest tool? It is objectivity.

Perhaps you might instead have guessed the answer was compassion, caring, righteous anger, or some other propelling state of heart or mind. These conditions are necessary in order to initiate into the action step of a hero’s journey, but they are not tools. You cannot learn or purchase caring or a passion to want to make life better for others. You somehow have to arrive at this point in your destiny, and deep compassion and caring define this point.

My personal thought is that there are many heroes among us, but most have no idea how to proceed in order to be successful. Instead of these individuals becoming heroes that facilitate growth and expansion, there are a lot of frustrated righteous martyrs out there, and humanity misses out on their message, their compassionate acts, their knowledge, and their wisdom.

So how does a hero go about making use of his/her FIRE, or the superhuman power that compassion and caring offer, in order to fulfill a heroic humanitarian role? Developing objectivity can help. Often would-be heroes have preconceived notions about what is “right,” or how knowledge, wisdom or a heroic act should be received by others. It is important to consider that being passionate or intelligent does not automatically make one “right,” and assuming so can easily create a fiasco. This energetic equation looks like this:

FIRE (compassionate energetic power) + unchallenged subjective beliefs = debacle.

If the hero-type blames the outer world for the failure, then the hero quickly becomes martyr-like and usually goes down with his cause. Radical activists rarely have the impact they seek. Heroism and martyrdom (lower case) are not the same things. With objectivity in the equation, it instead looks like this:

FIRE (Compassionate energetic power) + wise objectivity = steady gain.

Here are some questions to ask yourself:

  • Are you a hero that can entertain the thought that your reasoning or your beliefs and assumptions may be in error or in need of refining?
  • Can you be flexible in your expectations?
  • Do you realize that change cannot be forced and it often takes time? And to be an agent of change does not necessarily mean you do it alone?
  • Are you willing to listen, observe and make adjustments until the greatest growth and expansion is realized?

We are in desperate need of true heroes! Objectivity can assist those who have the potential to reach the apex of the hero’s journey and offer humanity a little more freedom and lessen its stagnation.

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